Study confirms we do get by with a little help from our friends
Keeping friends close has real physiological and psychological benefits, according to a January 2012 study in the journal Developmental Psychology.
The presence of a best friend directly and immediately benefits children going through negative experiences, says the report. Feelings of self-worth and levels of cortisol, a hormone produced naturally by the adrenal gland in direct response to stress, are largely dependent on the social context of a negative experience.
William M. Bukowski, a psychology professor and director of the Concordia Centre for Research in Human Development, is co-author of the study. He said:
Having a best friend present during an unpleasant event has an immediate impact on a child’s body and mind. If a child is alone when he or she gets in trouble with a teacher or has an argument with a classmate, we see a measurable increase in cortisol levels and decrease in feelings of self-worth.
A total of 55 boys and 48 girls from grades five and six in local Montreal schools took part in the study. Participants kept journals on their feelings and experiences over the course of four days and submitted to regular saliva tests that monitored cortisol levels.
Although previous studies have shown that friendships can protect against later adjustment difficulties, this study is the first to definitively demonstrate that the presence of a friend results in an immediate benefit for the child undergoing a negative experience.
These results have far-reaching implications. Bukowski explained:
Our physiological and psychological reactions to negative experiences as children impacts us later in life. Excessive secretion of cortisol can lead to significant physiological changes, including immune suppression and decreased bone formation. Increased stress can really slow down a child’s development.
When it comes to feelings of self-worth, what we learn about ourselves as children is how we form our adult identities. If we build up feelings of low self-worth during childhood, this will translate directly into how we see ourselves as adults.
Bottom line: The presence of a best friend directly and immediately benefits children going through negative experiences, according to a January 2012 study in the journal Developmental Psychology. Feelings of self-worth and levels of cortisol, a hormone produced naturally by the adrenal gland in direct response to stress, are largely dependent on the social context of a negative experience.